"I have not failed, I just found 10,000 ways that won't work"
-Thomas Edison
Sunday, July 16, 2006
relationships
im in awe of the diffrent couples i've come across in life.
especially a certain couple that happens to be a friend.
they're really so loving i have to admit im a tad jealous. they've been together for a few months. not sure how long but really. it's like they're soooo romantic.
you see. this is what happens when you indulge yourself in a relationship for an extended period of time. especially when it's more than a year. all sense of 'romance' practically has gone down the drain. and you can only see a flicker of it left, which will extinguish if you dont maintain the love between the hearts. listen. i am speaking of relationships. NOT marriage. that is totally a diffrent story. mainly because when you're married, u're forced to commit your ENTIRE life and if you dont spice things up..then too bad coz u'll end up in the divorce courts.
why do i have such a strong opinion on this topic? well. mainly because, it's happening to me. when you know you love someone and that person is already yours, you tend to forget that the person may also leave you at any point of time. poeple tend to simply ASSUME that their g.f/b.f will be with them together. that's when i strike. i hate to be second fiddle and i believe that i deserve every respect and attention a partner has to shower on me. tell me. do i really deserve any less? i think EVERY girl deserves that in a relationship.
so please, ladies. if the men aint treating you right. it's time to sae sayonara.
LOL. perhaps i am abit too demanding. but i do want & need the attention.sigh.
just tell me. can a person be so busy STUDYING day in and out that he cannot even reply one pathetic sms saying he's bz and needs to study. like HELLO. i'll get the message and i wun bug him. im not desperate for god's sake. but i do need to noe right? what will 1 minute cost to just type "im busy. cant sms right now. sorry!"